


My parents were teachers in a small, Southern town. They had been taking vacations since the 1940s. Of course, they always stayed with friends and family, but Fernandina Beach aka American Beach was my first vacation with them. When I see them sitting there so young and happy, I have to pinch myself. They never showed displays of affection in front of folks.
My Mother was a lady and my dad liked to think of himself as a hoodlum, but he really wasn't. They worked together for almost 60 years, and when death separated them, the pain in my father's face was so intense, I had to look away. My favorite memory of this couple involves my father looking at my mother as I looked at him. I watched his features soften and the color in his hazel warm as he looked at my mother's face. They were a team, and now I'm glad they're back together.


My grandmother was born in Fernandina Beach, and I've traced her ancestors back two generations. She had a cousin named Harry Treye who only had arm, but Mr. Treye could do anything a person with two arms could do. We used to go to the Treyes whenever we visited Fernandina, and it was such a treat. It was a huge (from my pre-teen years) house with a wonderful front porch and a bathroom that was added later and was situated on the back porch.



Text by © Annye Refoe
in cooperation with William Schmidt who scanned the photos.
I'm so pleased to see these -- thank you both Annye & Bill for sharing them. The wear and tear, the writing, everything about these photos speaks of their preciousness. In some ways, I think by being photographed, we can be assured of living on and on.
ReplyDeletePerhaps in this day and age we've grown calloused to that notion, but I think it was very strong for our ancestors.
What timing. Tonight, Obama received the votes he needed to be the Democratic nominee for President of the United States.
ReplyDeleteAnnye Refoe is one of the great lights of my life. I am glad and grateful for what F Blog has done.
lovely fotos and text. the memories are sweet and touching. thank you for sharing!
ReplyDeleteIndeed -- it looks like Barack Obama is going to be the man -- incredible!!! I'm overjoyed and so hopeful. This is truly a great day, to have begun with the story of a segregated beach vacation, and ended with this. It took too many years, but at least it is finally here.
ReplyDeleteamazing photographs and a very very much appriciated contribution to the F blog!
ReplyDeleteWhat wonderful pictures. Thank you so much for sharing these. Do you have more?
ReplyDeleteIt's been a touching story. You have been so nice telling it... Those pictures are a treasure
ReplyDeleteI am glad to see your contribution to The F Blog Anney and Bill. Many thanks.
ReplyDeleteWonderful....words and photos...powerful! Thank you for sharing them!
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